Are you reeling from your cancer diagnosis and treatment
but equally determined to make the most of the rest of your
life?
Are you looking for a roadmap to help you determine just
who and what is next?
Are you tired of putting yourself last and determined to
Live Your Best Life Now?
If any of these questions resonate
with you, then you’re in the right place. Imagine being
able to say that your life after cancer is better than your life
before it!
is filled with coaching tips, exercises and wisdom that will help
you create that kind of life. A life where you get up excited
to see what each day will bring and go to bed “good tired,”
at night.
Dear
Fellow Survivor:
My name is Kathy Santini and if any of
the above questions resonated with you I know exactly how you
feel. I know people say that all the time, but I really, really
do. You see, I myself am a cancer survivor who was diagnosed
with breast cancer in 1999. I also work with cancer survivors
in my workshops and coaching practice.
If you’re like me and the millions of
survivors before you, you’re aware as never before just
how very, very precious your life is. You’ve lost your
naïve and all too human belief that you’re immortal
and that time is an unlimited resource. And you’ve decided
that you want to use your time consciously and thoughtfully,
doing things that you love with those that you love.
As someone who has gone through a cancer diagnosis myself,
I know that after focusing so much time and energy on treatment
and on surviving, once treatment is finished, you find yourself
at loose ends. Contrast this to your family and friends, who
no matter how well meaning are relieved that “it’s
over,” and usually more than ready to get back to whatever
normal was before your diagnosis.
But like all archetypal heroes and heroines who are forced
to fight battles in unknown lands, you have returned from your
experience a changed person. After surgery and treatment, you
find yourself looking out over a totally new landscape, even
though it’s one you’ve known intimately for years.
While the physical geography of your outside world hasn’t
changed, your interior world has.
Because of your cancer experience, you now know as never before
just how precious life is. This old adage, that many proclaim,
isn’t just lip service to you; it’s now part of
your DNA. And it begs the question: how do you want to spend
the rest of your life?
If you’re like many survivors, the answer is “thoughtfully.”
Some of the women I work with following a cancer diagnosis turn
their lives upside down, as they go about planning their new
lives. Others discover that their lives are exactly as they
want them and they don’t make any changes. Still others
adjust certain areas of their lives, to find more fulfillment.
But almost all of them, in my experience, use their
diagnosis as an opportunity to re-examine their lives. They
look at what’s working, what isn’t and begin navigating
the next stage of their journey.
What’s behind all this?
A cancer diagnosis or any life threatening illness is
often
re-orienting and can bring about a massive change of priorities.
It raises questions about what really matters to the survivor,
which may or may not be different than to the person they were
before cancer. Survivors often start thinking about what, if
any, major or minor changes need to be made. They look at what
is damaging to them at a soul and body level and what sustains
and nourishes them. A cancer diagnosis
or any life threatening illness can:
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Bring an end to a phase of
life;
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Raise questions about the
meaning of life;
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Test the bonds of relationships;
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Provide you with an opportunity
to learn why you are here and what and who really matter;
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Serve as a wakeup call to
examine what has been resisted;
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Create the opportunity to
start living a more authentic life;
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Make you look at what’s
left for you to do;
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Give you permission to shift
your priorities;
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Give you a hunger for life
that might not have always been there;
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Create the time to take
a deeper, more spiritual look at your life;
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Give you first-hand knowledge
about the importance of focusing on living in the present
moment;
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Provide an incentive to
experience happiness and joy, regardless of the circumstances
and;
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Help you realize just how
insignificant and unimportant most of our every day
concerns are.
As I
mentioned earlier, I know what you’re going through and the
questions you’re asking yourself as I’ve walked a similar
path; I’ve walked a mile in your shoes. It can be a lonely
experience, because the people who you rely on to support you might
not be as helpful as you’d like them to be or as they’d
like to be, because they haven’t walked the same path as you.
While they might
not be able to help you, this book can.
Since my diagnosis
in 1999 I have: read too many books on cancer, illness and healing
to count; joined a cancer support group, got second opinions,
participated in a world conference on breast cancer, nursed my
mother who was dying from breast cancer during the last week of
her life, and coached cancer survivors and led workshops for them.
was written to provide you with
a shortcut and the steps for re-examining your life. And that’s
important because as a survivor you know the value of time. The
book will help you quickly identify where you’d like to
make changes and save you the lengthy trial and error I went through
before creating what is now a truly wonderful life.
By using this book as a guide you will:
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Increase
the quality of your life by
identifying the major areas of your life that need attention
or to be changed, be it – money; family and friends;
career; health; personal growth; work and home environments;
significant other/ romance and fun and recreation.
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Become
very, very clear about which hopes and dreams you want to
keep on the shelf and which ones you want to dust off and
pursue.
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Have a
very clear, personal vision of the kind of life you want to
create and live post-cancer,
which will act as your North Star as you go about creating
it; increasing the chances that you’ll achieve it.
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Remain
motivated as you pursue your vision
with the help of a vision board similar to the one used in
The Secret.
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Increase
the chances that you’ll create a life worth living.
You’ll now know what you must have in your life to make
your life worth living, whether or not that means keeping
up with the Joneses.
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Know the
reasons why what’s important to you is missing from
your life.
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Find decision
making easier, now that you
know what’s important in your life.
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Find reaching
your goals far easier, by using
a simple formula that successful people know and use.
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Know exactly where you spend
your time and whether or not it reflects your chosen, not
apparent priorities.
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Have
time in your life for the activities and people you want,
after identifying and eliminating the ones that don’t
reflect your current priorities from your schedule.
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Free up more time after identifying
your personal time wasters that don’t bring you joy.
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Do a
clean sweep of the people and things you were previously tolerating.
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Be quicker
at identifying the negative tapes we all have playing in our
heads which stop you from reaching
your goals.
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Be more
adept at dealing with your negative tapes,
now that you’ve got your own personal arsenal to handle
them.
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Be more
self-assured after replacing negative tapes with more positive
ones.
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Feel less
worried about a recurrence,
after creating some strategies to deal with your fear.
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Find
it easier to move forward despite your fears,
once you understand what your fears are costing you in the
way of a happy and fulfilling life.
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Find yourself
moving towards your dreams,
having learned how to expand your comfort zone.
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Enjoy
the benefits of practicing better self-care,
now that you know that being selfish isn’t a four-letter
word, but everyone’s right.
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Find people
respecting you and your wishes more,
now that you’re better at communicating and setting
boundaries and;
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Find yourself
surrounded by people who lift you up instead of drag you down,
after letting go of friends and acquaintances who don’t
support you.
Testimonials from Cancer Survivors
Kathy offers guidance
to those who wish to stay awake and live life to the fullest.
A single phrase that she said has stayed
with me and continues to resonate as I consider life choices
and directions. Those words — "don't go back to
sleep" — are worthy advice for anyone who has been
woken up by the experience of cancer, either their own or
that of someone they care about.
— Fran Backhouse, writer and cancer survivor. |
| I highly recommend Kathy’s
coaching and the coaching tools she uses to anyone who wants
to achieve a better life. I'd been living in limbo for
a number of years after cancer and a poor prognosis. In my
fear and uncertainty, I didn't know where to go, what I wanted
from life or how to set goals, let alone achieve them. After
attending one of Kathy’s workshops I left feeling hopeful,
inspired and more in control than I had in a long time. Now
as my coach Kathy’s helped me regain control of my life,
move forward, create the life of my dreams and to make a difference.
She’s helped me work through fears and obstacles, changed
my outlook, given me different perspectives and opened my
world to new opportunities. I know, with her help and with
my own hard work and determination, that I will reach my goals
and become the woman I dream of being. —
Kirsten Lauvaas, public relations professional and cancer
survivor. |
| After moving through the somewhat
daunting experiences of diagnosis, surgery and chemo, I was
left in a void, trying to sort out and re-frame what life
looked like now. I heard about Kathy’s workshop, called
Life After Cancer and I jumped at the chance. Many of the
women there shared the same anxieties, fears and emotions
that I was feeling. It’s not easy baring your soul to
a group of people you’ve never met before but I felt
completely safe and comfortable because of Kathy’s warmth
and compassion. With her guidance and expertise, some of
my challenges and priorities became clearer. Not only did
I leave the session feeling even more grateful to be alive;
but also a lot more grounded around what life might look like
ahead. Even though cancer is a solo journey in so many
ways, there’s comfort in knowing that in this world
of 'take all you can', that there are kind and giving people
like Kathy, who are willing to share the most precious of
gifts, at least to me...time. —
Sheila Hill, small business owner and cancer survivor. |
By buying this e-book now, you can start looking at your life
right away, plan for a wonderful future, start putting those plans
in place and begin living your best life now! It’s well
worth the investment at $19.95 CAD.
This step by step process is designed specifically
for cancer survivors who are aware of the importance of time
and want to begin living their best life now! Not tomorrow or
next week, but now!
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I’m Kathy Santini and as a life and
business coach and cancer survivor, I personally want
to see all cancer survivors leading happy and meaningful
lives after cancer. I want you to be able to say that
your life is better now after cancer than it was before
your diagnosis. I know it’s possible because
I’ve done it myself. And I know you can too, if
you follow the exercises and steps in this book.
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After my diagnosis, I took a hard look at my
life, especially at who and what really mattered. And discovered
that at the top of my list was me! Consequently, after my diagnosis
I:
- Quit my secure government job;
- Nursed my Mother who was dying of breast
cancer during the last week of her life;
- Did humanitarian work in war-torn Sierra
Leone;
- Spent four months sailing through the
Caribbean and the Bahamas;
- Built a house;
- Became a life and business coach;
- Worked as an editor in a war zone in Kabul,
Afghanistan and;
- Took coach training and started my own
coaching business.
In short, I created a happy and meaningful
life and can show you how to do the same. Live Your
Best Life Now! The Cancer Survivor’s Guide to Creating a
Happy and Meaningful Life was
written to help you create the kind of life described in the title
after cancer. I do this with the knowledge I’ve accumulated
on life after cancer, including: my personal experience and the
experiences of other cancer survivors; book knowledge gleaned
from devouring books on the subject; cancer support groups, participating
in a world conference on breast cancer; nursing my mother who
died from breast cancer during the last week of her life and through
coaching cancer survivors and leading workshops for them. Add
tried-and-true coaching methods and exercises to the mix and you’ve
got a powerful potion; all this combined is the means to a happy
and meaningful life.
Here is just some of the important information you’ll
learn in these 100 plus pages of easy reading:
- Why it’s important to be here now
and to live your best life now.
- How taking a closer look at your life
can stimulate your inner healing abilities.
- Why you are not responsible for your
illness but to your illness.
- What cancer survivors have in common
beyond cancer.
- Some recommendations on some great books
on cancer, illness and healing.
- Why you didn’t cause your cancer,
despite what others might think.
- The importance of looking at your life
before diagnosis.
- The importance of listening to what
your illness is whispering to you; and what changes, if
any, it is asking you to make.
- What cancer survivors want after treatment.
- How to reclaim the dreams that you might
have postponed or shelved.
- Ways to increase the chances that the
dreams you’re chasing will manifest and unfold.
- Methods for getting in touch with the
person you want to be – your Future Self.
- What you must have in your life to make
it worth living for you.
- How knowing what’s important to
you will make your life choices to date more understandable.
- The real reasons why what you claim
is important to you doesn’t look as important when
you take a closer look at your life.
- How knowing what’s
important to you can make decision-making easier.
- A formula for success which will increase
the chances that you’ll achieve your goals.
- How your apparent priorities might or
might not differ from your chosen priorities.
- What you’re currently tolerating
in your life.
- Where you’re wasting your time.
- How negative tapes are stopping you
from reaching your goals and when they’re guaranteed
to show up.
- How to decrease the impact of your negative
tapes.
- Why it’s important to start telling
yourself new stories.
- The truth about fear and what it’s
all about.
- Ways of decreasing your fears about
a recurrence.
- Ways of handling any fear.
- How to expand your comfort zone.
- Why it’s important to practice
extreme self-care.
- How to communicate effectively using
a tried and true formula.
- Why you might be avoiding conflict, why
it doesn’t work in the long run and what it might
be costing you.
- Clues that indicate that you need to
improve your boundary setting skills.
- The 1-2-3s of boundary setting.
- Why it’s important to surround
yourself with people who see you as healthy during and after
treatment.
- How the five most important people in
your life may be impacting you, for better or worse.
- Your own personal list of the characteristics
of the people who fuel you and drain you.
- The many gifts that a cancer diagnosis
brings.
Wondering
about the cost of this incredible resource?
This
information would cost you hundreds of dollars if you hired
your own personal coach. With newer coaches charging anywhere
from a couple of hundred dollars a month and up and world-renowned
coaches like Tony Robbins charging way, way more, the book is
very affordable at $19.95 CAD.
And even more so if you compare the price
of the book to what it would cost you to attend an all day
seminar with a well-respected coach. Not to mention the fact
that if you’re like most people, a few days later after
coming down from your seminar high, you’ll have lost
your motivation to make the changes you rushed out of the
seminar determined to make.
The good news is that
I’m not going to charge you anywhere near what you’d
pay for your own coach or to attend a seminar, and better
yet less than most books by only charging $19.95 CAD. And
the good news doesn’t stop there. You can stay right
where you are and begin reading it immediately by downloading
it now.
Think about this – My
book is less than the price of a good dinner, with your choice
of wine of course! And less than the cost of two tickets to
a movie, or three DVD rentals at your local video store. That’s
not including the popcorn!
The tools and coaching wisdom in my book will
help you create a happy and meaningful life – a life
that leaves you eager to get up every day and go to bed “good,”
tired at night. A life you can honestly say is better now
after cancer than before it.
Are you ready to download your e-book?
Ready to start creating a happy and meaningful life after cancer?
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Here’s a list of what you’ll learn in each chapter:
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Preface – Life
After A Cancer Diagnosis, Things Are Different Now
This chapter recaps life today as
a cancer survivor and explains why you should take the time
to re-examine your life and let your unique light shine.
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Chapter
One – My Story
Books on cancer worth looking at are referenced; you learn
why you shouldn’t for a moment believe that you caused
your cancer and my life before and after my diagnosis.
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Chapter
Two – Looking At Your Wild and Precious Life
Learn your level of satisfaction in the major areas of your
life, see what hopes and dreams you’d like to pursue,
meet your Future Self and learn about the power of vision
boards.
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Chapter
Three – Why Keeping Up With The Joneses Doesn’t
Work
Learn or confirm what’s important to you (it may or
may not be the same as society’s), what your top five
values are, whether you’re honouring them, how knowing
your values can make decisions easier, and the tried and
true formula for achieving your goals that all successful
people know.
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Chapter Four – Time’s A Wastin’
Learn how you’re spending every hour in your week,
how it reflects your apparent priorities but not necessarily
your chosen priorities, what distractions you’re tolerating,
your personal time wasters and the people and activities
you want to add to your life.
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Chapter Five – Lies
My Saboteur Told Me
Meet your saboteur, who always shows up to whisper negative
thoughts in your ear when you change the status quo. Learn
ways of taming him, how your thoughts create emotions which
create actions and result in the life you have now, and
the importance of telling yourself new stories. Discover
what fear is really about, what it costs you to remain afraid,
how to handle fears of a recurrence and how to feel the
fear and do it anyway by expanding your comfort zone.
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Chapter Six – The Greatest Love of All
Selfishness is not a four letter word; in fact it’s
great self-care. In this chapter you’ll learn things
you might be doing to avoid conflict, why people avoid conflict
and how you can improve your communication skills using
a tried and true approach. You’ll learn the 1-2-3s
of boundary setting and the importance of knowing the consequence
for violating a boundary before it happens.
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Chapter
Seven – Who’s Got Your Back?
The importance of surrounding yourself with people who see
you as healthy both before and after treatment is emphasized
as is how the five most important people in your life impact
you. You’ll outline the qualities of people that drain
you and fuel you and learn the best places to make new friends.
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Chapter
Eight – Living Your Best Life Now!
In Chapter Eight you’ll learn how cancer can be a
gift and what that gift brings. You’ll also learn about the particular dance that
is required after cancer and take the first step toward
your new life.
You
Don’t Want to Miss These Tips for Examining Your Life
and Creating a Happy and Meaningful Life After Cancer!! |
More Testimonials
| Before coaching, I felt overwhelmed by a
number of things that I had let go of for years, including un-filed
tax returns and messy finances, both business and personal.
These messes were impacting all aspects of my life. Worse yet,
I couldn’t see how to move forward or make the changes
that I knew I needed to make. There was so much to do and I
didn’t know where to start. Bringing Kathy into my life
brought the support, focus and energy I needed. Once I hired
Kathy, my successes were immediate. The excitement that
came from succeeding at something that had stymied me for so
long was incredible. We’ve only been coaching for five
weeks and yet I’ve accomplished so much. I can’t
wait to see what my life will look like in six months. —
Gail, consultant/trainer, Victoria. |
| With Kathy’s coaching (perceptive,
challenging and always with a sense of humour) I was able to
discover a roadblock that was holding me back in my personal
and professional life. And I was able to somehow get back in
touch with that part of me that I had left behind – the
magical, excitable, courageous me. —
Cathy, consultant, Victoria. |
For me, working with Kathy is like finding
a light switch in a darkened corridor. Her gentle guidance through
areas where I could not initially see a way helped me enormously.
She coaches with empathy, energy and most importantly encouragement
in finding the right solution to one’s problems.
— Annabel, pro-democracy advocate and writer, Washington,
D.C. |
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Kathy Santini, life and business coach
Arbutus Coaching – Growing People and Possibilities
(250) 388-6108
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